Is your marriage flatlining?
Are you happily together but devoid of sex and intimacy?
Hiring a male stripper can get your partner back in the game. Sometimes all it takes is a steamy performance to excite your partner again.
Letting your partner flirt with a hot, muscular man might not sound helpful but it does. First, you have to remember that your partner has no intimate connection to the stripper. He’s only there to turn her on and let her spill her emotions on you.
How else can a stripper add some spice to your sex life? The benefits begin even before he walks into the room.
Excitement Boils Before the Dance Begins
There is always a sense of taboo when hiring a stripper, whether male or female. People feel elated when they are doing something bad. You and your partner will already begin feeling positive tension before the real fun even begins.
Lovers will begin fantasizing what they’d do the moment the show is over and they’re alone again. Some couples get excited from the act of hiring a stripper or the thought of visiting a strip club. This puts foreplay in the background since the experience does all the sexual teasing for you.
It’s a Good Bonding Experience
Having fun with a stripper may be unconventional but it is still a bonding experience. You and your partner are sharing that moment and sharing the stripper. It’s an activity that you both take part in together and a stripper is an object of desire.
This also plays into the dominating side of a couple. You and your partner get to explore some power play as you command the stripper how to dance and what to do to arouse you both. This lets you and your partner discover what you might want to do to each other.
Some people discover they want to try open relationships or group sex a little too late in life. They might realize this when they’re in a relationship with someone not open to these ideas. The bonding experience of hiring a stripper can open your eyes before it is too late.
Everyone Feels Sexy
While female strippers do it for money, men strip because it makes them feel good. From the moment the stripper walks into the room he already feels excited, sexy and happy. You and your partner will feel this way too.
Positive emotions are infectious, after all. If the stripper is having a good time then you and your partner will too. Your partner, in particular, will feel sexy and appreciated since there’s a hot hunk giving her all the attention in the world.
Your partner isn’t going to pour out their lust on the stripper. That’s your role in this whole event. While the stripper turns her on, she’ll express her love and lust towards you.
That will make you feel appreciated and sexy too. At the same time, you’ll both be in a state of high libido and this can open the doors to discover other sexual desires.
Discover New Fantasies
Sharing each other’s sexual fantasies is a risky move, even for strong couples. Psychologists recommended sharing fantasies small and slowly. You have to gauge how comfortable your partner is with what secretly turns you on.
The good thing is that hiring male strippers is a small and slow beginning. As mentioned, there’s no sex involved so it’s safe for both parties. You’ll see and gauge how the experience turns your partner on.
You can escalate your plans from there. After the performance, you can ask your partner what part of the night turned them on the most. If they enjoyed it, you might have the confidence to discover what other fantasies they may have in mind.
This is how hiring a male stripper can open the gates to exploring your sexual fantasies. You might have a thing for light BDSM. Perhaps your partner wants to dress in a kinky outfit the next time you come home or you both want to try a threesome.
Fun with a Stripper Can Ease Your Mind
There’s no sex involved and most strippers focus on their performance than getting physically intimate with the customers. They aren’t there to have sex with you or your partner.
You might find this surprising but many professional strippers don’t offer extra services. Male and female strippers dance but they’re not prostitutes. If you’re worried about your partner getting nasty then don’t because by default strippers don’t offer sex on the table.
This lets you ease your mind. You and your partner can simply sit back, enjoy the moment, and let your libido take care of the rest.
It’s a Bold Invitation for Sex
Hiring a male stripper lets your partner know you’re in for a wild night. Throughout the performance you can watch but not touch, holding in your libido. By the time the night is over, you and your partner will be ready to unleash the built-up heat.
If your sex life is getting dull then this is an electric shock to wake it back up. Your wife is going to have a lot of pent-up heat after the show and the only person around to have fun with is you.
This is the same kind of psychological play couples do when they experiment with new positions or with BDSM. They may have seen these things in a movie or read it in an erotic book and now they want to enact it to spruce up the marriage.
Take a Dip, Hire a Male Stripper Today
Why waste another day? Why let the night go by without you and your partner having some fun?
This can be the jolt to wake up your sex life. This could be the spark that brings you and your partner back into the swing.
When you’re ready to take that step or if you still have lingering questions, feel free to contact us. We’ll gladly walk you through the process of hiring a male stripper and what other packages we have to offer.
